Taylor Swift doesn’t believe in “happily ever after” love stories

Don’t say that, Tay Tay!

Taylor Swift

by Anna Lewis |
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Taylor Swift has admitted she doesn’t believe in “happily ever after” love stories.

Haven’t you ever seen a Disney film, Tay Tay?

The 25 year old – who's previously dated the likes of Harry Styles and John Mayer, and is now in a relationship with Calvin Harris – has revealed that most of her early songwriting was based on a contrived understanding of love, rather than personal experience.

She told the June issue of ELLE magazine: "These were all projections of what I thought they might be like.

"They were based on movies and books and songs and literature that tell us that a relationship is the most magical thing that can ever happen to you.

"And then once I fell in love, or thought I was in love, and then experienced disappointment or it just not working out a few times, I realised there's this idea of happily ever after which in real life doesn't happen.

"There's no riding off into the sunset, because the camera always keeps rolling in real life. It's magical if you ask anyone who has ever fallen in love - it's the greatest. Now I have more of a grasp on the fact that when you're in a state of infatuation and you think everything that person does is perfect, it then - if you're lucky - morphs into a real relationship when you see that that person is not in fact perfect, but you still want to see them every day."

Taylor also spoke about her experiences of heartbreak, saying it causes time to move at "a completely different pace".

"You know how it is when you're going through heartbreak. A heartbroken person is unlike any other person. Their time moves at a completely different pace than ours.

"It's this mental, physical, emotional ache and feeling so conflicted. Nothing distracts you from it. Then time passes, and the more you live your life and create new habits, you get used to not having a text message every morning saying, 'Hello, beautiful. Good morning.'"

25 Reasons why we love Taylor!

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25 resons we love Taylor Swift

She has embarrassing childhood throwbacks (just like us!)1 of 17

She has embarrassing childhood throwbacks (just like us!)

She has the BEST Halloween costumes2 of 17

She has the BEST Halloween costumes

She's not a morning person either3 of 17

She's not a morning person either

She pulls the best 'so over it' face4 of 17

She pulls the best 'so over it' face

She invites fans round to her house! (And yes, that's her dad photobombing- LOL)5 of 17

She invites fans round to her house! (And yes, that's her dad photobombing- LOL)

She has a cute kitten called Olivia Benson6 of 17

She has a cute kitten called Olivia Benson

She's best friends with actual supermodles (that's Karlie Kloss FYI)7 of 17

She's best friends with actual supermodles (that's Karlie Kloss FYI)

She can totally rock out on stage8 of 17

She can totally rock out on stage

She's besties with Ed Sheeran9 of 17

She's besties with Ed Sheeran

She totally looks out for her fellow popstars (with Arianna Grande)10 of 17

She totally looks out for her fellow popstars (with Arianna Grande)

Oh yeah, and she's also besties with Lorde (why aren't we best friends with Taylor, too?!)11 of 17

Oh yeah, and she's also besties with Lorde (why aren't we best friends with Taylor, too?!)

Her pool skills are just as impressive as ours (i.e. not good)12 of 17

Her pool skills are just as impressive as ours (i.e. not good)

She's a sucker for a view13 of 17

She's a sucker for a view

She has the best taste in phone covers...14 of 17

She has the best taste in phone covers...

She wins Grammys...15 of 17

She wins Grammys...

Like TWO at a time!16 of 17

Like TWO at a time!

She has a lucky number- can we borrow your lucky number TayTay??17 of 17

She has a lucky number- can we borrow your lucky number TayTay??

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