Why Brooklyn Beckham’s not happy with Victoria’s ‘pushy’ plans for his wedding

She's putting the 'mother' in smother

Brooklyn Beckham and Victoria Beckham

by Charlotte Oliver |
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She’s made it abundantly clear just how delighted she is about her eldest son Brooklyn’s engagement to girlfriend of nine months Nicola Peltz, gushing about the pair all over social media and privately making plans for their transatlantic celebrations.

But according to insiders, Victoria Beckham’s excitement is starting to become just a tad extreme, and while Nicola’s happy to be on the good side of her future mother-in-law, Brooklyn’s finding her increasingly “overbearing” and “pushy”. And a recent family holiday to Italy has only increased the tension between mum and son – not least because Vic’s been using it as an opportunity to do some wedding planning.

“Victoria and Nicola have been spending a lot of time together on holiday – chatting, working out and going on shopping trips,” says an insider close to the Beckhams, who flew to Puglia in southern Italy, with their four kids– Brooklyn, 21, Romeo, 17, Cruz, 15, and nine-year-old Harper – and Nicola, 25, in tow. “Harper’s still too young to do a lot of things, so Vic loves having another girl around. But she’s been getting a little carried away with the wedding planning – she’s been rushing down to breakfast every morning telling Nicola and Brooklyn all about her new ideas.”

As heat has told you, Vic’s enthusiasm for Brooklyn’s big day has already caused some tension between her and husband David, who – although happy for the couple – is still concerned that Brooklyn might be a bit immature for such a massive commitment. But now that Vic’s steamrollering plans for the big day, it’s not just David who’s getting worried.

“There’s been a lot of eye rolling from Brooklyn,” says our source, noting that the Beckhams’ eldest son spent the majority of lockdown away from his parents with Nicola’s family in the US, where he had a lot more time to do things on his own terms.

Let's look back at Brooklyn Beckham's life, shall we?

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Brooklyn Beckham through the years

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Celebrating mum Victoria's 27th birthday in 2001. Check out those chubby cheeks!

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Here's a blast from the past! Check out the tiny tot being carried by his dad David after a night out at the theatre

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So cool he even gets his own bodyguard!

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Check out that cheeky smile! David and Brooklyn hanging out in New York in 2003 when he was age four

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Looking super cool at the UK premiere for Monsters Unleashed aged five

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Learning the football ropes at a match with mum Posh

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Spending the day with mum at Disneyland at the age of seven

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Celebrating with dad David at his last football match with Real Madrid

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Supporting mum Victoria on stage with his brothers Cruz and Romeo at the Spice Girls reunion tour

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Brooklyn at the age of 11 hanging out with dad Dave at A Night of Heroes

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Supporting dad at an LA Galaxy game

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Aged 12 and Brooklyn is looking smart at The Sun Military Awards

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Looking dapper on the red carpet at A Sports Spectacular at age 13

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Supporting Posh at the launch of the Spice Girls musical Viva Forever

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At the age of 14 Brooklyn is looking dapper at the Glamour Women of the Year Awards

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Hanging with the fam at the Class of '92 premiere

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All grown up and out on the town

“He knows how excited his mum is, but also knows that she has a tendency to take over. Of course, he wants her to be involved, especially because he knows how awesome she is at this stuff, but he also wants to have Nicola to himself without his mum interfering. He’s starting to get annoyed and has warned her about becoming a pushy mother-in-law.”

As for Nicola, our source says, “She’s been brought up to be incredibly polite, so she’s brushing it off and telling Brooklyn how sweet it is that his mum obviously loves him so much.” But, at the same time, she’s mindful that this is her wedding day, and it’s apparently “becoming a bit of a balancing act between the choices she wants to make – like choosing her wedding dress and venue – and letting Victoria impose some of her own decisions, like designing the wedding dress”.

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But while Victoria may be able to handle Brooklyn’s objections, we’re told there’s one person who she really doesn’t want to annoy – the mother of the bride. “Nicola’s mother Claudia [Heffner Peltz, a socialite and former supermodel] will be heavily involved, too,” says our source. “Vic needs to avoid overstepping the mark, especially because she and her husband Nelson are planning to pay for a multimillion-dollar wedding in the US [Vic and David are planning to throw a second celebration in the UK]. Nicola won’t want there to be any tension, so she’s just trying her best to please everyone.”

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