Maya Jama helps us with our Christmas party dramas

We need all the help we can get, tbh

Maya Jama

by Ruby Norris |
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Party season is in full swing and December is whizzing by in a blur of bottomless prosecco and mince pies.

For some bizarre reason we actually have quite a full social calendar in the weeks leading up to Christmas, and while this makes a nice change from spending the majority of our evenings buried under 246242542 blankets and surrounded by various takeaway boxes, the morning after guilt and foggy post-work party head is proving to be a bit of struggle.

Luckily we caught up with presenter, DJ and all round mega babe Maya Jama at the live recording of the When Life Gives You Melons podcast to seek help with some of our party season woes. Mainly 'cause she seems like a laugh but also looks as though she's totally got her shit together. Which is pretty much the aesthetic we want right now.

We came up with some Christmas party-related scenarios (which may, or may not be true) and Maya gave us her best advice.

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Help! I accidentally kissed one of my colleagues at the Christmas party, how do I make sure things aren't awkward when we're both in the office?

I would say, just mention it straight away. Get it out in the open asap.

Say something like, ‘OMG, That’s so awkward we kissed!’ and then just laugh it off. ‘Cause if you leave it for too long, and you’re both thinking the same thing and can get really awkward.

Eugh, I'm horrendously hungover at work, what can I do to make sure my boss doesn't find out? Is there a cure?

Personally, I would just have a Redbull (other any drinks are available, obvi) which just turns me into Speedy Gonzales. Or coffee, just try and have as much of anything that’s going to give you the energy to get through.

And then one of those orange fizzy things – a Berocca! I’m usually quite good on a hangover, but yeah, I’d say coffee, Redbull or Berocca.

I really don't like the person i've got for secret santa, what's a good gift to get? I don't want to be overly nice, but I also don't want to let on how much I dislike them...

I'd go for tomething under £10 that’s quite cute but nothing special.

Maybe like a notepad, or some cute stationary. Something that’s like, ‘Oh, I’m so busy, but I’m not being a prick.’

I'm so busy at work and I have absolutely no time to change before heading off to Christmas drinks? What can I wear that will take me from office to 'out out'?

You can always wear black jeans. They’re safe.

And then a cute little top, but paired with a blazer. So it’s work appropriate, but when you take your blazer off you’ve got your nice little top underneath.

Finally, I've decided to make a New Year's resolution this year? What can I do to make sure I stick to it?

I never make New Year's resolutions, because I never stick to them. I say I'll do one and then I'm like, 'that's never gonna happen,' but if I was to try and stick to it I would write it on a post-it not and put it on the mirror.

'Cause you're going to be looking in the mirror everyday, when you're brushing your teeth or whatever, so it would remind you about your resolution.

Basically, just write it on something or somewhere you're going to see everyday.

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The Ritual of Ayurveda Candle, £21.50

Christmas can sometimes be a stressful time (what with all of that cooking and present buying). So, buy someone special a relaxing Christmas candle, like this one from Rituals. The Almond Oil and Indian Rose ingredients are meant to have a relaxing effect on body and soul. Oooohhh.

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Sanctuary Spa Cosy Candle Trio, £14

Treat a mate to this trio of candles in festive fragrances (think luxury oud and fireside) to make their home smell SUPER dreamy. And just look at how pretty this gift is!

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ESPA Winter Pine Candle, £30

Can't quite afford to treat your bezzie to a luxury weekend at the spa? Make up for it with this ESPA Winter Pine Candle, combining classic winter scents with an aromatherapy edge. The ideal gift for someone in need of a little post-party season R&R.

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Katie Loxton Christmas Candle, £25.50

This adorbz Merry Little Christmas candle from Katie Loxton blends snow pine and clementine to create this ultimate Christmas fragrance. Dreamy.

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Diptyque Christmas candle, £28

Opt for a bit of glam with one of Diptyque's three fancy AF holiday season scented candles.

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Marks and Spencer's Mandarin, Clove & Cinnamon Scented, £7.50

Nothing really screams Christmas like the warm winter aromas of spicy cinnamon, peppery cloves, nutmeg and zesty sweet mandarin. And that's exactly what this Marks and Spencer's favourite offers. (Plus at just £7.50 it makes a fab secret santa gift).

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Primark Frosted Cranberry And Walnut Candle, £3

For £3 you really can't go wrong with this Christmas candle. We reckon it makes for the perfect Secret Santa gift for that hard-to-buy-for work mate.

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Primark Frosted Wonderland Boxed Votive, £3

We've found you an easy-peasy stocking filler, and it comes in the form of this winter wonderland-inspired candle from Primark. CUTE.

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